Shomer Negiah

http://hevria.com/rochel/im-sorry-i-dont-touch-men/

First of all, Rochel, you don't need to apologize for your boundaries. Its tricky, I dance in both worlds  at times generous with my touch, other times reserved, cautious, holding the ground for the dignified princess that I am. Last night was strange.  At a roof top party with Chassids ex Chassids, some guys I hugged, they are my brothers, others are my brothers, I love them and I don't need to hug, and then there was a Chassid with peyos, adorable, who is Yossi drunk and he goes to hug me. Ewww, you don't have persmission to do that. Consistency is key